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MOTHER

Prenatal nutrition

This is a truly beautiful piece, please read this at a slow pace, digesting every word in leisure; do not hurry, this is a treasure. For those lucky to still ne blessed with your mom, this is beautiful. For those of us who aren’t, this is even more beautiful. For those who are moms, you’ll love this.

The young mother set her foot on the path of life. “Is this the long way?” she asked. And the guide said: “Yes, and the way is hard. And you will be old before you reach the end of it. But the end will be better than the beginning.” But the young mother was happy, and she wouldn’t believe that anything could be better than these years. So she played with her children, and gathered flowers for them along the way, and bathed them in the clear streams; and the sun shone on them, and the young mother cried, “Nothing will ever be lovelier than this,”

Then the night came, and the storm, and the path was dark, and the children shook with fear and cold, and the mother drew them close and covered them with her mantle, and the children said, “Mother, we are not afraid, for you are near, and no harm can come and the morning came, and there was a hill ahead, and the children climbed and grew weary, and the mother was weary. But at all times she said to the children, “A little patience and we are there.” So the children climbed, and when they reached the top they said, “Mother, we would not have done it without you” And the mother, when she lay down at night looked up at the stars and said, “This is a better day than the last, for my children have learned fortitude in the face of hardness. Yesterday I gave them courage. Today, I’ve given them strength.”

And the next day came strange clouds which darkened the earth, clouds of war and hate and evil, and the children groped and stumbled, and the mother said: “Look up. Lift your eyes to the light. “And the children looked and saw above the clouds an everlasting glory, and it guided them beyond the darkness. And that night the Mother said, “This is the best day of all, for I have shown my children God.”

And the days went on, and the weeks and the months and the years, and the mother grew old and she was little and bent. But her children were tall and strong, and walked with courage. And when the way was rough, they lifted her, for she was as light as a feather, and at last they came to a hill, and beyond they could see a shinning road and golden gates flung wide. And mother said, “I have reached the end of my journey. And now I know the end is better than the beginning, for my children can walk alone, and their children after them.” And the children said, “You will always walk with us, Mother, even when you have gone through the gates.” And they stood and watched her as she went on alone, and the gates closed after her. And they said: “We cannot see her but she is with us still. A mother like ours is more than a memory. She is a living presence.”

Your mother is always with you. She’s the whisper of the leaves as you walk down the street; she’s the smell of bleach in your freshly laundered socks; she’s the cool hand on your brow when you are not well. Your mother lives inside your laughter. And she’s crystallised in every tear drop. She’s the place you came from, your first home; and she is the map you follow with every step you take.

She is your first love and your first heartbreak and nothing on earth can separate you. Not time, not space, not even death!

Lifestyle

Dear Child

If you are reading this, it only means that you are old enough to understand what I am saying.
I have dreamed of you since I can remember, even before I could meet your father, I dreamed of the perfection you would once become and be in our lives. How our lives would change in an instant as soon as we would find out about your existence.

A daunting task it will be from the very start but your innocence and love will melt us. None of the pain and tire will matter. We will love you and cherish you for as long as we live. 


There is a world outside here that will be waiting for you. Many will celebrate and many will not. We will be very lucky to be your parents, and trust me I will pinch myself to reality forever for the fact that you will have chosen me to be your mother. We will pray for you everyday and consecrate you to the Lord’s altar. We will teach you all there is to teach you but most of what you will learn and be will be in the school of life and on your own. 


Do not be afraid to be weak, for in your weakness will you find strength. Do not be afraid to fall, for every time you will fall, a lesson will be learnt. Do not be afraid to make mistakes, they will be a constant reminder that you are not perfect. Find yourself good friends and do not be afraid to lose others. Be careful with life but don’t be too serious with life to miss out it’s fun face. Love relentlessly because the fact is there will be hate in this world and it will hurt so bad, but you don’t have to pay back in the same measure. Look at the world through the underside of a glass boat, through a lens zoom the world and there you will see the galaxies of the human mind; because there will time when you will open your hands to catch and only end up with blisters and bruises. You will soon find out that when you are spreading your wings to fly, there will be weights put on your wings by people you least expect, but don’t worry, there are good ones too who will push you on.
Start over and over until you get it right, do not get tired because at the end of the race, you will look back and notice that mama and papa were cheering you on the whole time. And you will still be glowing in perfection despite the scars. The scars will be the proof of your victory. We love you my sweet child.

Lifestyle

A letter to self

Dear Me

How have you been doing? I hope you are doing well. I have been seeing kicking a** lately. Life has not been easy at all but I am so so amazed at how you have kept so positive, no wonder you have lived life to the fullest. I bless God that you have grown so deep in faith because that is keeping you sane and I am positive that it is the sole reason you are living the way you are.

Life is not a straight line you know, it has humps and bumps, deep valleys and dark allays too but it has mountain tops as well that have a magnificent view. I am sure you have tasted it all, right? If you are sometimes happy and sad other times, be glad because that is life and how it was designed to be lived. I guess it would be boring if it were any different.

We have been together for more than 20 years now and getting stronger. I have seen you grow from messy to bossy. If I have not told you enough that I am proud of you, I will say it again. I AM VERY PROUD OF YOU GIRL. I have seen you live life to the fullest, at your worst and at your best, you have tasted rich and you have tested broke too, you have been betrayed but managed to pick yourself up. Very many times I have left you to figure it out because I believe in you a lot. The challenges you have gone through and those you are going to face in the future have certainly and will bring you pain but I assure you, these will not break you. Don’t let anyone lure you into thinking that you are a failure, no, not at all. You are bigger than this. These are just ‘wind breakers’ in your path to help you recognise the little things that perhaps you were taking for granted; but not only that, these are meant to be a blessing too and a point of encouragement to someone out there tomorrow in that same spot.

Please forgive me for the times I have not been of great motivation and for a moment let you sink in your sorrow, allowed you to hang your head low, entertained ‘ney sayers‘ into your life and not given an open ear to what is troubling you. I promise to do better. I will intentionally put you first and turn on the rays of positivity at all times to radiate your skin. Get ready to glow, my girl.

Have noticed how you have changed over the recent years? You now appreciate work and do all you can to bring the very best of to the table, you multitask and are very attentive to the needs of others. You dream a lot more and in color; I love that you are also taking this writing thing so seriously. It goes without question that you are now embracing all kinds of opportunities that cross your path for as long as you see value in them. That is very impressive I should say. You are more alert to what goes on around you as well as being intentional about your relations with family and friends. I am amazed that you even get time for ministry, an opportunity to serve the Lord. Please never loose that my friend. If you keep on this path, I assure you that you will be unstoppable. My prayer is that you get more confident and that life gives you the best there is to offer for as long as you live.

I am writing this letter to you at a point when you are making some of the most important decisions of your life and I can only imagine what is going on in your mind each passing day. The days may be passing by so fast and I am more than certain that you have lots of people whispering all kinds of things in your ears, coupled with your own voices; please I beg of you not to be anxious. Do not dare look at the greener grass in the other compound, yours too is as green and maybe just needs a little more manure and patience to see it blossom. Do not ever compare yourself with anyone because you are the best version of yourself. You are doing great already.

So I hope that 2 or 3 years from now, you will come back to read this letter and will understand what I meant as you mark your life medals that you will keep collecting along the way. Be sure that I will be by your side to the very end cheering you on. I am praying for you every second of my life. I love you so so much and cannot wait to see what life hands you in the next future.

With Love

Lutgard Musiime Akiiki.